EXCLUSIVE: Friday’s Final Report From The Private Investigator On The Cheating Husband

Words do not describe what we heard on the radio this morning when we got our final report from the Private Investigator to the wife who thinks her husband is cheating.

Here it is:


  • http://www.facebook.com/NastySmurf JLK

    I knew as soon as the private investigator said a couple got out of his car that he was doing a threesome….I feel so incredibly sorry for the wife. I just want to tell her that whatever she does she needs to feel comfortable and absolute with her decision and not to let anyone make her feel bad for doing what she feels is best for her. I wish her the best of luck and hope she finds the happiness she deserves.

  • Kat

    My advice to Wife is to contact a lawyer right away. No amount of counseling is going to change him.

    My husband wanted to open up our marriage. He started bringing up swing clubs, we went a few times and ended up in a foursome. A year later, he showed interest in a married co-worker and asked my permission for them to have sex. He assured me that he wanted to be married to me for the rest of his life and it was just sex. Despite my fears, concerns, jealousy – I said ok. Long story short – they fell in love 2 months later. That was 3 years ago. I tried accepting her in his life and in mine – but after 21 years together, we are now getting a divorce. Wife – please save yourself many years of pain and get out of the marriage now. I wish I would have done it sooner. I feel your pain more than you know. Your husband wants what he wants and that isn’t going to change.

    I’ll be thinking about and praying for you!

  • DMFB

    On Tuesday, when the private investigator said that he was with a male and a female in the morning that he was involved in a threesome. I feel badly for the wife and wish her the best. Like JLK said, don’t let anyone be an influence. You do what YOU think is best for YOU. I have been through similar and it’s quite painful, but I got through it. I hope that the husband is honest from the getgo.

  • TLB

    I feel bad for the woman. I went through the same thing only it was 23 years into my marriage. He started taking an interest in the swingers lifestyle and talked to me about it once in a while. When I said I couldn’t do that, he let it go and eventually brought up having an open marriage. When I said no to that as well, he dropped it but I noticed he was acting funny. I knew something was wrong but when I asked him, he said I worried too much and that he loved me and wasn’t going anywhere. He said I was his soulmate. About a month later, he walked out on me and both of our children for a younger woman he had been having an affair with for over a year who I was told was in the swingers lifestyle. He has no contact with the kids at all and hasn’t for almost 5 years now. I hate to tell her but if this guy is into this now, the desire for that sort of sexual stimulation will never leave him. My ex had an affair with a much younger woman near our 13th anniversary, swore he’d never do it again, we got into counseling and I forgave him. I think looking back that the pain would have been much less for me and both of my children had our marriage ended then instead of 10 years later when the kids were old enough to understand what happened. I wish this woman the best and hope she finds the happiness she deserves.

  • lzso

    Is it possible that on top of all of this the two women he met with the one night and got the enveolpe of papers from were also involved and played the part of a madam or pimp per say. Could he be paying for these services? I think this wife needs to go to a doctor asap and get herself checked out and get away from this man.

  • http://gravatar.com/me963 me963

    I wish they would bring her back on the air next week to see how it went when she confronted her husband. I feel so bad for her.

    • DMFB

      I agree, I would love to hear the outcome. I feel so bad for the wife that he was doing this behind her back. I pray it works out for you Mrs. Wife. I am sure the best thing will happen for you.

    • JM

      Great idea…I totally agree. We have become invested in this story and want to know that she’s ok.

  • JM

    To wife: I cannot even begin to imagine what you are feeling and the amount of sorrow and doubt you must have is overwhelming. While it may not be any type of consolation now, it is true that EVERYTHING happens for a reason and you are having this life-changing experience because you are meant to learn and grow from it. I sincerely hope that you find peace and solace and the courage to make the right decision…whatever that might be.

    • CMT

      I too feel horrible for the wife. I know that she suspected him cheating but I don’t think that she ever thought of this outcome nor did Bubba and the radio station. I can’t even imagine how she feels. I think everyone would love to know if he admittted or denied it.

  • Jo

    I was lisrening all week and when Miss PI revealed the findings of what the “Husband” did on Thursday (the Motel) I got an instant pit in my stomach and felt so bad for the “Wife”. All I thought about all day at work was the “Wife” and how devistated she must feel. I really feel for her.

    • http://gravatar.com/me963 me963

      I know we were talking about it too at work it really bothered me at work. I have been married for 23 years. I know I have a good husband but I also know there are many not so good husbands out there. I thank god for my husband!

  • http://gravatar.com/me963 me963

    Please bring her back on the air again so we can see what happened. I am so courious on what happened when she confronted him.

  • Liz

    Bubba, I hope that you will follow-up with the “wife” and the outcome of her cheating husband, and share the info with your listeners. I think I speak for many listeners when I say, that we are all concerned about her to varying degrees and want to know if she is ok and how this life changing event has affected her and her marriage.
    I personally feel that this is not the first time he’s done this. and he may not even perceive it as cheating, since he discussed having an open marriage with her in the past. Having said that, it will probably happen again, too.
    I hope she sticks by her vows and throws the SOB out. An open marriage is not a marriage. It’s “justification” for cheating, that’s all.
    Please keep us posted. Thanks.

  • JLH

    I hope that “wife” is OK and that she gets therapy to help her through this difficult time…It helps to talk to someone! I know because I have been through it not once but twice.Best of luck~

  • Stephanie Cordis

    Please give us an update of how she handled this with her husband!!!! I listened all last week and I think we need a follow up interview!

  • Angela

    I tried to save my marriage after my husband suddenly decided to not come home from work. I was a stay at home mom for our 13month old daughter. He had been acting differently for a while. I will not say I was the perfect wife. I had gone through post pardum depression and I will say it was not easy for him because I cried all the time. When he did not come home that one night, I started to search his things and I found little notes and a number in a pocket. The number was to a girl’s house. I was devastated. We decided to work things out and we had two more children. At this point, we had bought a new car, a house and I had three babies when I caught him cheating on me again with a girl at his office. It has been 2 yrs. since I caught him in the act. I see how my children suffer. My heart aches for them. So I say to the “wife”, I think it would be a smart idea for you to go to counseling for yourself and consider the marriage over. I tried to save mine twice( beleive it or not after I caught him in the act I scheduled a marriage counseling session) but after ten years of trying to be something HE wanted….It just didn’t work. I have now moved on and found someone that fits into my life perfectly. My heart goes out to you. I wish you a lot of luck.

  • Jennifer

    Leave him!!!! He will never change. I went through the same thing only thing that was different was i was pregnant with my first child when i found out my significant other was cheating on me. Like a fool i forgave him and 6 months later i caught him cheating again!!! I understand how you feel believe me but in the end you will be better off. Going through life always wondering what they are doing,who they are talking to,who they are with is no way to live. You deserve to be with someone who you can trust and who will take care of your heart,not throw it on the ground and destroy it!!!! Best of luck i know how you feel and i will be praying fro you.

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