You might think you got it going oooon. Think again next time you flirt with someone…

Here is what you’re doing wrong (besides creeping everybody out) :

#1.) You’re too aggressive. Women say the biggest flirting mistake a guy can make is being too aggressive. That’s even worse than using a bad pick-up line, or making an inappropriate comment.

#2.) You’re condescending. Men say the biggest flirting mistake a woman can make is EMASCULATING him . . . like offering to give him some money to buy a drink.

#3.) You think everyone who flirts with you is trying to date you. The survey found 54% of men and 41% of women will flirt with someone even if they’re not interested in pursuing anything.

#4.) You aren’t keeping up with the trends. The majority of people say that flirting has evolved from being, quote, “coy and giggling” to having a real conversation where you make fun of each other a little bit.

(Zoosk / FemaleFirst)