I dated a guy for over 3 years and started to see some controlling issues in him the closer we talked about moving in together. What made me totally break it off was that my cat startled him by jumping on the bed with him and he threw her across the room. He was a bit intoxicated. I flipped out and ended it with no contact since. His apologies are disgraceful and he won’t acknowledge that he has severe anger, drinking and control issues. My question- was I absolutely right in breaking it off and doing the no contact?
Signed *Likes my cat better*
Was this the right thing to do? Advice in the comments section below.